I sit with hot cuppa beside me and behind me is a tidy house. Oh boi, my eyes are on soft focus, just taking it all in. When you tidy up, do you actual sit and enjoy it? if not, I suggest you start to. Its very rewarding. Pop puirfy or lemongrass in the diffuser as well. It may only last 10 minutes, but at least I know it has the potential to be tidy. Let me ask you something, when you say the words, "My house is such a pigsty" or "dont need to worry about anyone breaking in, it looks like it is robbed anyway! " What do you really mean? Pick up that cuppa, have a mouthful and ponder that statement. What do you really mean by a 'pigsty ' and ' robbed'. As Mummas you can get so mixed up on what it means to have things tidy and in order, compared to the house being unclean. Now we all aren't clean freaks and we all have little obsessions in the home. For me, the floor in the kitchen and dining must be swept before we walk out the do...